New research on how fathers’ interactions with their children is affected by the relationship they have with their partner again draws attention to the importance of parental co-operation during and after separation.
Published by NatCen Social Research, the Institute of Education’s Thomas Coram Research Unit and the University of East Anglia (UEA), the research shows that fractious relationships between parents spill over into the relationships they have with their children – when parents don’t get on and find each other irritating or regretful of their relationship, they are more likely to shout at their children rather than praise them.
The research adds to a body of expert opinion that of all the consequences of a relationship breaking down, conflict and hostility between former partners most negatively affects children.
Children in Separation, Divorce or Dissolution
When a relationship ends, negative feelings are understandable. Deciding issues concerning children can be particularly difficult and distressing, often causing intense arguments and hostility between separated couples.
Yet coming to an agreement about where children should live and how often there should be contact, that allows both parents to continue a meaningful relationship with them, is important for ensuring their well-being. Avoiding trying to settle problems in front of them and putting them in stressful situations can also help children to adapt to separation more quickly.
When faced with making arrangements concerning children in separation, divorce or dissolution, mediation or collaborative processes can provide an environment for coming to a decision that both parents accept. Such conciliatory approaches are valuable ways of resolving issues relating to children without going through a lengthy and costly court process. Perhaps most importantly, it provides a space to deal with the fall-out of the end of a relationship and helps to improve communication between the parties so they can have a relationship as co-parents.
Family Lawyers in Scotland
At McCarthy Law, we understand how difficult the end of a relationship can be, particularly when children are involved. We take the time to listen to our clients and find the best possible solution. If you need advice and assistance on any matter relating to the breakdown of your relationship, then please contact us by calling 0141 337 6678 or by filling out our enquiry form.